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Rebuilding and Sustaining Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem as an Athlete – The Secret Sauce for Youth Athletes

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Shortly after publishing the most recent article on Process, I caught last week’s Ed Mylett show where he and his guest discussed the importance of process for building confidence. As I listened to the rest of the episode on building self-confidence and self-esteem, I was compelled to research and capture some thoughts to create this brief outline on self-confidence related to youth sports.

As a high school or college athlete, self-confidence and self-esteem play a vital role in your performance, growth, and overall well-being. However, there may be times when your confidence takes a hit due to setbacks, injuries, or other challenges. This article will provide you with effective strategies to retain and regain self-confidence and self-esteem, enabling you to excel in your athletic pursuits. Read below for practical guidelines on how to preserve your confidence and avoid the pitfalls of self-doubt.

Acknowledge and Accept Your Emotions: It is important to recognize and accept the negative emotions you may experience when your confidence is low. Denying or suppressing these emotions can hinder your ability to overcome them. Allow yourself to feel disappointed, frustrated, or anxious, but remember that these emotions are temporary and do not define your abilities or worth. 

Reflect on Past Successes: Remind yourself of past accomplishments and successes as an athlete. Recall moments when you performed exceptionally well, overcame obstacles, or received recognition for your skills. Reflecting on these positive experiences can boost your confidence and remind you of your capabilities. 

Set Realistic Goals: Establishing realistic and attainable goals is crucial for rebuilding self-confidence. Break down big goals into smaller, manageable steps that you can work towards. Celebrate each milestone you achieve along the way, as this will reinforce your belief in your abilities. 

Focus on Your Strengths: Identify and emphasize your strengths as an athlete. Everyone has unique talents and abilities that contribute to their success. Recognizing and utilizing these strengths will enhance your confidence and help you make valuable contributions to your team. 

Surround Yourself with Supportive Individuals: Surrounding yourself with a positive and supportive network is essential for regaining self-confidence and self-esteem. Seek the encouragement of coaches, teammates, and friends who believe in your abilities and provide constructive feedback. Their support can inspire you to overcome challenges and maintain a positive mindset. 

Learn from Setbacks and Failure: Accept that setbacks and failures are part of the athletic journey. Instead of viewing them as obstacles, see them as opportunities for growth and learning. Analyze what went wrong, identify areas for improvement, and use this knowledge to become a better athlete. Embrace a growth mindset that thrives on challenges and views setbacks as stepping stones toward success. 

Practice Self-Care: Taking care of your physical, mental, and emotional well-being is crucial for rebuilding self-confidence and self-esteem. Prioritize rest, recovery, and proper nutrition to optimize your performance. Engage in activities outside of sports that bring you joy and relaxation, fostering a well-rounded sense of self. 

Visualize Success: Use visualization techniques to imagine yourself succeeding and excelling in your athletic endeavors. Visualize the specific actions, movements, and outcomes you desire. This practice can enhance your confidence, improve focus, and mentally prepare you for success. 

Seek Professional Guidance: If you find it challenging to rebuild your self-confidence and self-esteem on your own, consider seeking professional guidance. Sports psychologists or counselors can provide valuable tools and strategies tailored to your specific needs. They can help you navigate mental and emotional obstacles, enabling you to regain and sustain your confidence as an athlete. 

Conclusion: Rebuilding and sustaining self-confidence and self-esteem as a high school or college athlete is a continuous journey that requires effort, perseverance, and self-reflection. By implementing the strategies outlined in this chapter, you can overcome setbacks, embrace your strengths, and cultivate an unshakeable belief in your abilities. Remember that confidence comes from within and is within your power to nurture and strengthen. 

The Secret Sauce for Youth Athletes is a series of habits and practices that when adopted by athletes, can help them realize their potential while simultaneously developing important and essential life skills to carry into adulthood. Subscribe or follow for more practical tips and guidelines for unlocking the code for athletic success.

Note: I have zero affiliation with Ed Mylett or his content other than as a consumer of valuable content. To learn more about the episode that stimulated this post, to listen to the episode, click the link below.

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Process vs Outcomes – The Secret Sauce for Youth Athletes

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Chapter: The Importance of Process for Youth Athletes

In the world of sports, success is often measured by wins and losses, personal records, and other tangible accomplishments. Pressure on results, intentional or not, is a constant reminder for youth athletes. However, focusing solely on outcomes can be limiting and discouraging for youth athletes. Instead, it is important to place greater emphasis on the process – the daily habits, routines, and actions that lead to success. In this article, we will explore the importance of process for youth athletes and how it can help them achieve their goals.

The Importance of Process

  1. Consistency

One of the key benefits of focusing on process is that it promotes consistency. When athletes focus on daily habits and routines, they are more likely to stay motivated and maintain their commitment to their goals. By consistently working towards their goals, athletes can build momentum and achieve greater success over time.

  1. Focus on Development

Another benefit of process is that it encourages athletes to focus on development rather than just outcomes. Rather than simply striving to win or achieve personal bests, athletes can focus on improving their skills and technique, building their endurance, and becoming stronger mentally and physically. This emphasis on development can lead to more sustainable success in the long term.

  1. Reduced Stress and Anxiety

Focusing on process can also help reduce stress and anxiety for youth athletes. When athletes focus solely on outcomes, they may become overly anxious and stressed about their performance. However, by focusing on daily habits and routines, athletes can feel more in control of their performance and less stressed about the outcome of a single event or game.

How to Focus on Process

  1. Set Process Goals

To focus on process, it is important to set process goals. These are goals that focus on daily habits and routines, such as practicing certain skills for a set amount of time each day or committing to a regular exercise routine. By setting and tracking progress towards process goals, athletes can stay motivated and maintain their commitment to their goals.

  1. Emphasize Growth Mindset

Another important aspect of focusing on process is developing a growth mindset. This means viewing setbacks and failures as opportunities for learning and growth, rather than signs of inherent limitations. By adopting a growth mindset, athletes can stay motivated and focused on development, even in the face of challenges.

  1. Track Progress

Finally, it is important to track progress toward process goals. This can help athletes stay motivated and make adjustments to their routines as needed. Tracking progress can also help athletes celebrate their successes and stay motivated, even during periods of slow progress. See the previous post on Journaling and to learn some tips on tools that you can use to track your progress.

Conclusion

Focusing on process is essential for youth athletes who want to achieve their goals and enjoy sustainable success in the long term. By emphasizing daily habits and routines, athletes can develop greater consistency, focus on development, and reduce stress and anxiety. Strategies such as setting process goals, adopting a growth mindset, and tracking progress can help athletes stay motivated and committed to their goals, even during challenging times. The Secret Sauce for Youth Athletes is series of habits and practices that when adopted by athletes, can help then realize their potential while simultaneously developing important and essential life skills to carry into adulthood. Subscribe or follow for more practical tips and guidelines for unlocking the code for athletic success.

Time Management – Essential Skills for Youth Athletes, teen years and beyond. The Secret Sauce

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If you are reading this as a youth athlete or parent of a youth athlete, whether new to the experience or a seasoned vet, you have likely experienced a completely crazy schedule. Club training, games, tournaments, private training, fitness, school activities, homework, etc are constantly competing for an athlete’s time. In most cases, parents carry the burden of driving, carpooling and generally racing around to get their student-athletes from activity to activity. It is important for athletes to understand and manage their own schedules starting in their teens at the latest. I can’t tell you how many team talks when asking about upcoming events and participation, where I have had many players look back with a blank stare and an apparent lack of any clue of what their upcoming schedule is. The facts are that many youth athletes are over-scheduled and it is a significant effort for parents to manage all of the commitments.

If you or your athlete is one of the 2% of youth athletes to be fortunate enough to compete at the college level, then you (they) will likely benefit from the regimented schedule that comes with being a collegiate student-athlete. Between team and school standards on academic performance, many universities provide and demand adherence to a strict schedule of classes, workouts, training, competition, study hours, tutoring, etc. I would argue that while busy, student-athletes have an easier time adjusting to academics by virtue of the support they receive compared to non-athletes or those not in specialty programs

Time management is a crucial skill for teenage athletes to develop as they navigate their busy sports lives filled with school, extracurricular activities, social events, and personal responsibilities. Rather than relying on parents to manage their time, athletes will benefit from starting to manage their own time as they become teenagers. Here are some tips for effective time management that can help teenagers make the most of their time.

  1. Set Priorities: It is important for teenagers to identify their priorities and focus on the tasks that are most important. Make a list of tasks for the day or week and prioritize them based on importance and urgency.
  2. Create a Schedule: Creating a schedule is an effective way to manage time. Set aside specific times for schoolwork, extracurricular activities, and personal responsibilities. This can help teenagers stay organized and ensure that they have enough time for everything.
  3. Avoid Procrastination: Procrastination is a common issue among teenagers, but it can be detrimental to effective time management. Encourage teenagers to tackle difficult or unpleasant tasks first, and reward themselves with a break or a fun activity once the task is complete.
  4. Minimize Distractions: social media, television, and other distractions can eat up a lot of time. Encourage teenagers to limit their screen time and minimize distractions while they are working on tasks.
  5. Use Time Efficiently: Time can be wasted if teenagers don’t use it efficiently. Encourage them to use small pockets of time for productive tasks such as reviewing notes, reading, or completing short assignments.
  6. Take Breaks: Taking breaks is important for staying focused and avoiding burnout. Encourage teenagers to take short breaks throughout the day to recharge and refocus.
  7. Get Enough Sleep: Getting enough sleep is crucial for effective time management. Encourage teenagers to establish a consistent sleep schedule to ensure that they are well-rested and ready to tackle the day’s tasks. More on sleep in an upcoming article.
  8. Learn to Say No: It can be difficult for teenagers to say no to social events or extracurricular activities, but sometimes it is necessary to prioritize responsibilities. Encourage teenagers to be honest with themselves and learn to say no when they need to focus on their priorities.

Effective time management is a skill that can be learned and developed over time. By setting priorities, creating a schedule, avoiding procrastination, minimizing distractions, using time efficiently, taking breaks, getting enough sleep, and learning to say no, teenagers can manage their time effectively and achieve their goals. Time management is another important life skill that youth athletes can leverage now and develop the muscle memory required to carry on that skill as they progress through future stages of their lives. For more on “The Secret Sauce” follow this blog and follow @coachrich8 on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.

Podcast- Coach Rich Rants- season 2 episode 2

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Listen to the most recent episode of my podcast: The Problem with the Problem with US Youth Soccer – Player Identification https://anchor.fm/rfh8/episodes/The-Problem-with-the-Problem-with-US-Youth-Soccer—Player-Identification-e50mjo

Season 2 Episode 1- Youth Sports Attrition

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Listen to the most recent episode of my podcast: Youth Sports Attrition. The Role of Parents and Coaches and what we may be missing! https://anchor.fm/rfh8/episodes/Youth-Sports-Attrition–The-Role-of-Parents-and-Coaches-and-what-we-may-be-missing-e4v5bk

Podcast Episode #19 – Homework

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Listen to the most recent episode of my podcast: Episode 19 -Homework leads to Mastery- Ball Mastery. 10 minutes per day is like an extra practice. https://anchor.fm/rfh8/episodes/Episode-19–Homework-leads-to-Mastery–Ball-Mastery–10-minutes-per-day-is-like-an-extra-practice-e34bj0

It only takes 10 minutes a day. Listen to how players can improve their foot skills and get the equivalent of an extra training session per week in 10 minutes per day. Coaches should encourage home based skill acquisition aka “Homework” to encourage Individual training. Ball Mastery, moves, juggling and basic dribbling 10-20 minutes per day several days per week will improve first touch, balance, coordination, agility and confidence on the ball. Players, if you are not doing it start! Parents and Coaches, encourage your players to start and keep track of these sessions. This is ideal for multi-Sport athletes who are constantly juggling conflicting schedules and can make up the equivalent time of a missed session. Over a 5-10 year playing career, players can literally get the equivalent of seasons of extra touches by creating this habit.

Check out my free skills tracker form, just download and save as your own and start tracking your touches today

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Podcast Episode 16 -It Takes a Village

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Check out my episode “Episode 16 – It takes a Village! The Problem with “The Problem with US Youth Soccer”” from Coach Rich Rants on Anchor: https://anchor.fm/rfh8/episodes/Episode-16—It-takes-a-Village–The-Problem-with-The-Problem-with-US-Youth-Soccer-e2pbq3

It’s Takes a Village – the Problem with the Problem with Youth Soccer is that kids can’t access the whole village because the corners are guarded by the bullies.

Goal Tracking and Journaling

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Now available from Amazon.com in 2 different covers.

Start to create really important life lessons while helping you(player) or your child(parents/coaches) reach their potential.  This is a Journal…

There are 3 sections:

Section 1 includes Goal Setting.  Establish Goals for yourself or for your team and chose the target date. i.e. Full Year, Fall Season, Winter Training, offseason, etc.

The goal includes 4 questions –

  1. What is the Goal?
  2. Why or Purpose?
  3. How will you achieve the goal?
  4. When is the Target Date?

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Section 2 is a Daily Journal.

Use the Daily Journal to capture your thoughts, plans, dreams or whatever you want.  Keeping track of how a training session went whether with your team or outside training.

Keep track of what you did, how you felt, what you ate, or even the weather.

This is your journal and your place to write your thoughts and feelings, track performance and manage and measure your goals.

These will be helpful for doing a self-assessment at different times of the year or you can keep them and look back in them in future years for inspiration and motivation.

Pro Tip -Journal Topics

  • Injury
  • School Conflicts
  • Social Conflicts
  • Highlight Moments

Food, Water, and Sleep

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Section 3 is Where you assess how you are progressing against your targets.

When you combine written goals and daily journaling, you now have what you need to assess your progress.

Establish Checkpoints where you can return and report on your progress.  If you have achieved your goals, you can set new goals or new targets that you want to hit.  If you are not progressing, you can do a course correction to modify the goals or modify the plan to get there.

Pro Tip – Ideas on Timing

  • Preseason
  • After Fall Season
  • Mid-Winter
  • Pre – Spring Season
  • Year-end
  • Off-Season Training

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Two covers are available for purchase on amazon.

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Podcast 14 – Goal-Setting and Tracking – Realizing Potential and Developing Life Skills

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Episode 14 introduced goal setting as a way to build life skills while trying to reach potential as an athlete.

Episode Highlights:

What is your “Why”?  – establishing an understanding of why an athlete is playing the sport in the first place will provide an indication of what the player is looking to achieve.

Setting goals that are attainable and measurable.

Setting aspirational goals that are seemingly impossible.

Establishing both personal and team goals.

Breaking the season up and creating goals that correspond.

Journaling and keeping a log of what is going on.

Checkpoints and course correction.

 

These are just a few of the topics that are discussed in the Episode, nothing is ever scripted, rehearsed, or edited so it is a raw take on the topic.

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